So this post isn't dramatic but it is truth, well what I consider truth. So I guess take it however you want.
I had a conversation with one of my friends the other week and this has been on my mind a lot. I consider myself and nice person, who means well, but also makes mistakes, and I may say the wrong things at the wrong time! Yeah it happens... Why does this happen? Well because I am human. To be human means that I am not perfect and I will make mistakes. However being human also means I will not get a long with everyone, and not everyone will like me, no matter how nice I am.
This is the circle of life, it is VERY rare when I don't "like" someone, usually it is because of my insecurities. Or we simple live different lives. However I would never go out of my way to brutally be mean to them or even talk behind their back. That just isn't right! I feel that no matter how much that person bugs me I should give them some respect. We have agency to choose what we do in this life, however we don't have the ability to choose the consequence whether good or bad. So I would rather be nice to someone then mean!
I believe however if you are trying to be a good person, and trying your very best at what ever you are doing. You NEVER have to apologize for who you are. Especially as a women, we all have different dreams and out looks on life. We learn differently, we fell spiritually in different ways, we dress differently, we act differently, and so on..... But two thing we have in common is we are human and we are women! What more do I need to say besides, stop putting people down because they are different then you! Love them unconditional and hope the very best for them!
Obviously we have our moral inclination and there is a time and place for that, if you mean it in the most loving way! However we should not be brutally naming each other, or hurting each other in any way. I was taught to love those even if they are different.
I'm not perfect and I don't always act perfect but that doesn't mean I'm not trying to do my best or I'm not trying to get where I need to be. I just had a bad day, or something just didn't go right that day. Also, I just sometimes want to sit and watch tv ALL day, or eat a whole thing of cookie dough, and sometimes I just don't want to do anything! Call it laziness but I call it relaxation :)
Only one person has ever been perfect on this earth and that is Jesus Christ, but no one on this earth will ever be perfect. So stop judging, talking, or even being mean to that person! They don't deserve it and neither do you. I promise you that if you work on seeing people how Christ does you will not get upset as much or defensive! Just love people and realize they are different, they make mistakes and you are just the same! We should embrace people different then us, because they bring a different perspective and ideas.
So this is to those that feel judged, bullied, or even hurt! You are human and you will make mistakes, and so will those around you. "Forgive and Forget" the best words my father ever taught me, also "Don't dig in the grave yard, the past is the past"! Words of wisdom from the best dad. A man who has come before me, and knows what its like to be at my age! And now I pass it on for you!
P.S. no one has put me down or anything but I see a lot of girls around me doing it and I see the hurt it does.
