Planning a Wedding

So there is nothing like planning a wedding... This is why, there is so much going into a wedding and so much to think about.. First you have the prep work, which consists of you and your fiance figuring out the basic information such as date, colors, when and where.. Thats the easy part.. Then you have to prepare yourselves for marriage before you even get married and think about everything after the wedding however that comes a little later.. Second you have the wedding planning, this consists of talking with your mom and soon to be mother-in-law about what you want to do and how everything is going to look. This also all comes don to the dress, bridesmaid, grooms men, family(on both sides. How you are going to decorate, what food you are going to have, how much money you have to spend, how you want the reception to look, what you can compromise on.. Where the honeymoon is going to be.. Third what the plans are after the honeymoon, where are you going live, who is paying for what, are you getting joint accounts, and the list goes on and on... However even with the stress of planning everything and hoping it all goes well.. It all boils down to one thing.. You and the person standing next to you! If you can both compromise and come to conclusions on things life will all work out. If anything I have learned is that Robbie and I can talk to each other even if we upset each other.. However always ALWAYS REMEMBER that you always love each other, you just don't have to like them for that moment! Because those little things that bug us and drive us crazy end up making us a couple and we learn from each others mistakes. Also never have expectations for one another! If you do talk about them and see if they are rational! Robbie and I talk about this a lot.. because you think you don't have expectation however after LOVE LAND has disappeared you come back to reality and realize things that you never have. Rob and I are both LDS (Latter-day Saints) we live to the standards of the church and we both have never done anything with another person! That is amazing to me that we both have the self-control and mind set to do that.. But that also brings concerns and possible expectations.. Talk to each other about it even if you are living together or so forth.. It never hurts to have communication on everything.. It maybe awkward at first but I can tell you hard things to talk about become easier! I'm not married yet but these are things that Rob and I have done and gone through so far.. Its great to know that I am not scared of my fiance judging me and not loving me for giving my opinion or thoughts! Just thought I would give you all so updates and advice.. =)